Two lithium nuclei in a lithium vapour at room temperature do not combine to form a carbon nucleus because

In a lithium vapor at room temperature, the distance between two lithium nuclei is larger when compared to the short-range attractive nuclear forces. Thus, repulsive coulomb forces will be effective and this does not allow the two nuclei to come very close to form a carbon nucleus. If we want to combine two lithium nuclei to form a carbon nucleus, we need a temperature of the order of K.

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